{"id":1661,"date":"2020-02-01T11:03:47","date_gmt":"2020-02-01T17:03:47","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lfsmusings.com\/2020\/02\/01\/how-i-balance-life\/"},"modified":"2020-09-26T17:39:51","modified_gmt":"2020-09-26T22:39:51","slug":"how-i-balance-life","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lillyfei.com\/index.php\/2020\/02\/01\/how-i-balance-life\/","title":{"rendered":"How I Balance Life"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Often, people ask me how I do it all\u2014a PhD, advocacy, reading, writing, Chinese lessons, exercise, socializing, taking care of my pets. When I hear that, I think to myself, \u201cThat\u2019s not really a lot of stuff.\u201d There are people with way more on their plate than me. There are people with way less time than me. I guess for people in their mid-twenties and childless, it may seem like I do a lot. Or perhaps, I do several things that seem \u2018productive\u2019 and \u2018intellectual\u2019 to others.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>First, I\u2019ll go ahead and say I read many books that are guilty pleasure reads that require zero brain power (unless my internal monologue is screaming at the horrible plot and grammar) . Second, I have pages upon pages of just scribbles and ideas that are so bad, I can\u2019t write a full piece from it. Despite those two tidbits, I\u2019ll go ahead and share my <strong>2 secrets <\/strong>to show I get so much done.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>TIME BLOCKING. <\/strong>This may make some of you groan. It may bring you back to your middle school days when you carried around a school-issued agenda that an adult signed once a week. I started time blocking in college and have continued to now. Here\u2019s an example of how I may time block now.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lfsmusings.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/img_0700.png?ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1659\"\/><figcaption>Image Credit: LFSMusings<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>I started with an online calendar because it was easiest to block out times and move things around. As a college student in Boston, my schedule was constantly changing. Before, I never really noted how long it took me to complete tasks. I would block out time for everything\u2014studying, class, internships, socializing, chores, meals, etc. As I finished weeks, I\u2019d look back and adjust my future time blocks based on how the week went and what I knew was coming. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Now, I \u201ctime block\u201d in notebooks because I prefer a pen and paper. I have a pocket sized notebook for random thoughts (shown in the top picture). In there, I dedicate one page per week for my major to-dos. I have time blocked for so many years that I no longer need to input exact times (like in the online time block shown above). I have a general start time, but I don\u2019t worry about the end time because, let\u2019s be honest, I\u2019m too lazy to add in that setting. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I have a separate pocket sized agenda for work. This is a weekly agenda with note pages and a life changer (I can\u2019t show this because I need to protect my work and data). Typically, I\u2019m running several experiments at once, teaching, mentoring undergrads, and trying to keep up with readings and presentations. Having a separate planner where I can write more details than just \u201cWork 8-6\u201d is really helpful in keeping me productive and organized. If someone asks me what I have done or what I am planning to do, I can show them exactly what the weekly plan is, and what I am hoping to accomplish. If I forget about a reaction that\u2019s being stored in the freezer, I open up the planner and remember it\u2019s time to start the next step of my experiment. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Find whatever system works for you. I\u2019ve tried over a dozen planning systems (truly\u2014my bookshelf if filled with half-used agendas\/notebooks). My general system of blocking remains the same. After some practice, you won\u2019t <em>need <\/em>to block out time for everything, but you\u2019ll have a clear, accurate idea of how much you can accomplish in one day. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>RECHARGE. <\/strong>The second way I do a lot is by doing things that I get energy from. I used to think I\u2019d re-energize from sleep. Don\u2019t get me wrong, sleep is absolutely necessary. Plus, I\u2019ll never say no to a nap. But while my body rests, I don\u2019t feel re-energized. My mind is still groggy. I\u2019ve found that reading and writing give me energy. They\u2019re usually not \u2018work\u2019 unless I need to review a book that I really wasn\u2019t feeling. Reading and writing get me excited about life and motivate me to do more. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When I\u2019m tired, I\u2019ll sleep my needed 6-8 hours, but I\u2019ll get up and re-energize with books and pens. Because I\u2019ve found what energizes me, I make sure to add in a time block for it every day. Sometimes, it\u2019s only 15 minutes during lunch. On weekends, it can be a multi-hour session. No matter the time, I find it necessary to keep my days balanced. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Find how you re-energize while awake and try to make it a priority in your life. It took a long time for me to find the balance in my life, and I always remember the balance will shift based on whatever is happening in life. 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