{"id":2652,"date":"2020-08-18T11:00:00","date_gmt":"2020-08-18T17:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lfsmusings.com\/?p=2652"},"modified":"2021-01-20T15:57:21","modified_gmt":"2021-01-20T21:57:21","slug":"my-adoption-story-pt-78-toxic-relationships-do-i-cut-them-off","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lillyfei.com\/index.php\/2020\/08\/18\/my-adoption-story-pt-78-toxic-relationships-do-i-cut-them-off\/","title":{"rendered":"MY ADOPTION STORY Pt. 78 | TOXIC RELATIONSHIPS | DO I CUT THEM OFF?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed-youtube wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"TOXIC RELATIONSHIPS | DO I CUT THEM OFF? | MY ADOPTION STORY Pt. 78\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/eVzBiHdF7f8?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>When a transracial adoptee begins to open up about their adoption trauma and struggles with racism, it can be jarring to their friends and family. 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