{"id":277,"date":"2019-07-11T09:00:12","date_gmt":"2019-07-11T14:00:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lfsmusings.com\/?p=277"},"modified":"2020-09-25T22:55:50","modified_gmt":"2020-09-26T03:55:50","slug":"its-not-about-being-beautiful-its-about-being-comfortable","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lillyfei.com\/index.php\/2019\/07\/11\/its-not-about-being-beautiful-its-about-being-comfortable\/","title":{"rendered":"It\u2019s Not About Being Beautiful. It\u2019s About Being Comfortable."},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lfsmusings.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/\/img_0633.jpg?ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-276\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>I stared into the mirror with frustration growing inside of me. I had been trying to apply liquid, winged eyeliner for the last twenty minutes. Nothing was working. 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