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You haven\u2019t heard from me in awhile, but I think that just means our wedding planner is amazing!?! On the first of every month we get a checklist of what wedding things we need to accomplish that month. We are still 13 months out and the list has been extremely short. Once we reach June 1, the checklist will grow. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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It all feels a bit surreal still. While most brides would be picking bridesmaids and going to bridal boutiques for dresses, I\u2019ve already done those steps. I guess I am on the Increased Workout Motivation Train because I hope I can still fit into a dress I was supposed to wear two years ago, but that\u2019s about it. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

I\u2019m feeling a bit anxious about the guest list. I hate confrontation and hurting people\u2019s feelings. The reality is, a lot has changed since 2019. I\u2019ve changed. People around me have changed. My relationships have changed. It feels so uncomfortable redoing our guest list, but at the same time, I want to spend the day with my genuine support. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

So overall, still pretty stress-free when it comes to wedding planning. We booked the biggest vendors. The wedding parties are set. I think next month will be when things really start picking up. Plus, we have our (second) engagement photoshoot! I will write more about that and the first one when the time comes. For now, I will just keep enjoying this do nothing stage of the planning process \ud83d\ude42 <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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