It Ends With Us | A Possibly Triggering Read

4.5/5 stars

I find that I enjoy Colleen Hoover books the most when I don’t read the back cover summary and this was no different. This book had me turning the pages as fast as possible. At times, I was infuriated with Lily and her choices, but then context would have me sympathizing with her. And leave it to Colleen Hoover to have me sympathizing with Lily’s husband, Ryle. This was a wonderful novel about mental health and relationships. One that makes you remember situations aren’t always black and white and people aren’t just good or bad.

January 3, 2022 Thoughts:

I had written that little blurb before I was truly serious about book reviews and like many of my early posts, the review is rather lacking.

It Ends With Us was a gritty read that had me feeling uncomfortable for most of it. This was a heartbreaking story that gave readers a raw look at what can happen behind closed doors. As a mental health activist, I have said that unresolved trauma leads to more trauma and these characters are perfect examples of that. My heart ached as I saw them try to fix themselves, push through the abuse, and forgive.

As I mentioned in my initial thoughts, Hoover wrote the characters as complex and compassionate beings. There not a clear answer on who was automatically good or bad. Everyone had deep histories and trauma that made them who they are. As much as I was frustrated with Lily for some of her choices, I couldn’t blame her because as the reader, I was also feeling sympathy and compassion for Ryle. I loved Lily (and not just because we share a name). She fought hard for herself and I appreciated her character development.

I’ve seen people question if It Ends With Us is a sad story. It’s gritty and heartbreaking. It doesn’t sugar coat and shows readers how complex and messy love can be.