MY ADOPTION STORY Pt. 78 | TOXIC RELATIONSHIPS | DO I CUT THEM OFF?
When a transracial adoptee begins to open up about their adoption trauma and struggles with racism, it can be jarring to their friends…
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Little Gifts to Learn Chinese
Learning Chinese was something I attempted to do as a child. I didn’t appreciate Saturday school. Even though my parents said I would…
ONE YEAR BIRTHDAY
It’s a very special day — This blog turns one year old today! One year ago, I was dealing with one of the…
Is it Disrespect or just Disagreement?
Here’s the disclaimer to ensure you read until the end: NOT ALL PARENTS INVALIDATE ADOPTEES After spending a few years in various adoption…
Triggers are Valid
Why am I writing this and not just ignoring the haters? Because I know about all the adoptees feeling alone and watching advocates…
MY ADOPTION STORY BONUS EPISODE | Ask Me Anything | Q & A
Adoption Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/adopteelilly/ It has been so fun connecting with all of you–especially fellow adoptees who have shared their experiences with me. I…
MY ADOPTION STORY | NEW SUBS AND INFLUENCER UPDATE | CHAT TIME
Hi, everyone! You probably found me due to the latest news regarding an adoption influencer and re-homing her son. I wanted to give…
I’m Going Live!
It’s really important we stay connected and continue showing each other support even while practicing social distancing. Comments are open below for you…
Don’t Let Anyone Pick Your Battles For You
This applies to every day of the year, but since the holidays are approaching it seems like a perfect time to write about…
Becoming AdopteeLilly
When an adoptee has the floor, do not derail the conversation to prove how woke you are. My name is Lillian飞岗 Schmaltz, and…