Dear Mama | January 17, 2022
亲爱的妈妈， Lunar New Year is coming up! Are you preparing for it? What does our family do for it? Do we have any…
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Dear Mama | January 14, 2022
January 14, 2022 亲爱的妈妈， Are you doing well? What has the pandemic been like in China? I thought of you often during lockdown.…
A Faceless Mother and Me
The day of the photoshoot arrived and anxiety was setting in. I kept myself busy around the home and waited until an acceptable…
Two Faceless Strangers
I’m sitting in a coffee shop on a rainy day waiting to pick up my mom from the airport. She’s here for a…
Unresolved Trauma Leads to More Trauma
I’m not talking about the willfully ignorant parents. As adoptees sharing our stories, we all have encountered them and have all been triggered…
MY ADOPTION STORY PT. 105 | How To Start Online Advocacy
Even though I take a low-key approach to advocacy, there is a strategy to being able to produce regular videos/posts. In this video,…
MY ADOPTION STORY PT. 104 | WHAT’S MY PERSPECTIVE
When I share my story, it is from the perspective of a Chinese, international, transracial adoptee. In this video, I share why it…
HE’S BACK | An update on our lives post-breakup and reconciliation
June 22, 2021 was supposed to be our two year wedding anniversary. Life happened and that’s not the case, but Adam and I…
MY ADOPTION STORY PT. 103 | I’M SICK OF THE PLAGIARISM
Plagiarism has been a huge issue in the advocacy community and I’m tired of it. While we all can have similar thoughts about…
MY ADOPTION STORY PT. 102 | Start Advocating Online Adoptee Edition
Relevant blog post: https://lillyfei.com/index.php/2021/02/01/how-to-be-an-advocate-transracial-adoptee-edition/ So many adoptees want to start advocating online but don’t know where to start. In this video, I give…